Flavour, the Nigerian singer, has revealed how he became addicted to masturb^tion for more than two years after losing his virginity at 24.
In a recent TikTok live session, the 42-year-old music star
shared that the addiction began after he struggled to find the woman he had his
first sexual experience with, leaving him without a romantic partner.
According to Flavour, a man in his neighbourhood advised him
to start watching pornography, which eventually led to compulsive masturb^tion
several times a day.
The singer added that the addiction became so severe that it
affected his physical appearance and left him too ashamed to remove his shirt
in public.
“After I lost my virginity at 24, I started looking for the
girl I slept with. At the time, there were no phones. She gave me her email
address, so I kept going back and forth to the cyber café, sending her emails
and checking for replies, but she never responded. Eventually, I gave up,” he
said.
“I didn’t have a girlfriend. Apart from a few childhood
crushes, I’d never been in a relationship. After the girl disappeared from my
life, a guy from my street advised me to get Makoka Kamasutra CDs.
“I bought them. Whenever everyone had gone to sleep, I would
play the CDs and watch them. I would prepare myself by bringing a bowl, an old
cloth and some liquid soap (Morning Fresh). I was masturb^ting three times a
day. I became heavily addicted.
“I started losing weight and became too ashamed to take off
my shirt in public.”
Flavour disclosed that he eventually sought help from his
mother’s pastor, as he could not confide in his immediate family.
“I needed someone to talk to, but I couldn’t speak to my
father, mother or sisters. So, I went to my mother’s pastor, who offered
guidance and counselling. I waited until everyone had left before telling him I
had been searching for someone to confide in and felt led to speak to him. I
told him everything. He gave me prayer points, Bible verses to read every day,
and instructed me to fast for 21 days. I was happy because I thought it would
solve the problem,” he added.
“Then Friday came. We went to perform on stage, and I saw
girls dancing. I ran into the toilet and masturb^ted. It felt like I was back
to square one. Eventually, I gathered the courage to speak to one of our band
members, an older Cameroonian man who played the bass guitar. He asked how long
I had been struggling with it, and I told him it had been about two years.
“He said the reason I kept masturb^ting was because I wasn’t
sexually active. He took me to a brothel, introduced me to a woman, and
arranged for part of the money I was sprayed during our performances to be used
to pay for the visits. Since we performed every Wednesday, Friday and Saturday,
he made sure I visited the brothel on those days.
“Those women were the ones who taught me how to have sex.
After that, I stopped masturb^ting. Back then, if I had seen blessed anointing
oil, I probably would have used it as lubricant.”
Flavour is not the first celebrity to speak publicly about
struggling with masturb^tion.
Recently, actress Tonto Dikeh also opened up about a
long-running battle with sexual immorality, saying it included masturb^tion and
recurring sexual dreams from childhood.
She, however, said her Christian faith helped her overcome
the long-standing struggle.
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